Yet Another No Porn Thread

[BubbaHeat]

Originally Posted by Lucretius

With the porn, I'm just not seeing it. The only thing I really liked about not looking at it was I felt more self-consistent. That is, when I went home I didn't have my secret porn life. Other than that, nothing was really running through my mind that said "hey you know, if you keep doing this things will get better in the following ways".

Hey Luc,
Keep it up. It is worth it. If it wasn't you wouldn't be having a pity party over your buddies girlfriends. This is different for everybody. As a married man I can't really relate to how this would work for a single guy. But for me, ditching the porn just made me feel like a better person and made me more avialble emotionally to my wife. It used to be that if I didn't get the sex I wanted I would sulk off and "reward" myeslf with a porn binge. That's just not healthy. Now if I don't get what I want, I go for it, or we talk about it which is how communication should work in a relationship. Long tem the porn will get in the way of having healthy sex with a woman. Keep working at it, use healthy masturbation and believe that it is worth it. It isn't magic, you won't become a chick magnet over night, but long term you'll be a better man to yourself and the woman you choose to be with and that is the point of the exercise.