Don't be that guy at the strip club

[GettingBetter]

Originally Posted by TaoZen

Yeah me to, but they really don't like me drooling all over the glass there.

You sure it was drool?

Drool isn't sticky!

[TaoZen]

Originally Posted by GettingBetter

You sure it was drool?

Drool isn't sticky!

Well.... now that you mention it.

[Eiji]

Originally Posted by Devile

I'm just wondering which country pottymouth lives in where they have to keep strippers behind glass...and making a point to never go there. :P

I've been to some that are more like a "peep show".. and those have the glass.. (but they also have porn shops as part of the establishment.)

[MyWave]

Originally Posted by pottymouth

In case it is not obvious, I believe that strip clubs are poison for a NG. They can get the percieved approval they crave from overtly sexual women, for a price. Once the money is gone, so is the attention. More shame, more visits to try to regain the good feeling. Just like a drug abuser. Remember, this board is inhabited by NG's in various states of recovery.

NG's also do this cause they are scared to death of true intimacy. They think if they show there 'real' self, the woman won't wanna have anything to do with him. Strip bars are just another fantasy hangout, and a toxic place that allows you to hide rather than expose your vulnerabilities in a authentic way

Originally Posted by pottymouth

If a man wants a prostitute, fine by me. It may not be the healthiest way to have sex but at least it's up-front. Going to a titty bar is like prostitute light. All the cost with without the actual sex.

I respectfully disagree here. While I think it may be more of a step forward than a strip bar (even not so sure about that), it's yet another way for an NG to avoid showing your true self to another

fyi: strip clubs where I live are full nudity with absolutely no glass. In fact, the ladies are allowed to touch you, but you can use no hands. They often will touch or grab hair cause they know it can generate more out of your pocket into theres lol. You can buy a private dance where they grind all over you. Just another way to get more bling out of you

Dreadfully fake... flirting with everyday women is much more exciting and fun imo

[Eiji]

Originally Posted by MyWave

NG's also do this cause they are scared to death of true intimacy. They think if they show there 'real' self, the woman won't wanna have anything to do with him. Strip bars are just another fantasy hangout, and a toxic place that allows you to hide rather than expose your vulnerabilities in a authentic way

one could argue the same thing about "Hooters"... I went to such a place a couple times... but the food was no good, so I saw no need to keep coming.

[kofcydonia]

I've just never understood the point of strip clubs. Seems awfully expensive for something you can get for free.

[Gargantuan]

Originally Posted by kofcydonia

I've just never understood the point of strip clubs. Seems awfully expensive for something you can get for free.

For that matter, why am I paying my water bill? Seems awfully expensive for something that falls out of the sky every month.

[Boyd]

Originally Posted by Gargantuan

For that matter, why am I paying my water bill? Seems awfully expensive for something that falls out of the sky every month.

Go ahead and gather it and find a way to shove it through your pipes as needed Unless you like a washboard and washing all your dishes by hand, and ... let's not talk about waste dumps.

Boyd

[kofcydonia]

Originally Posted by Gargantuan

For that matter, why am I paying my water bill? Seems awfully expensive for something that falls out of the sky every month.

Hey, be my guest at showering in cold, untreated rain water!

[Gargantuan]

I shower in cold untreated rejection from women I haven't paid, what makes you think I can't handle a little cold water? The alpha males of yesteryear didn't have hot water heaters.

[frankPascanini]

Originally Posted by kofcydonia

I've just never understood the point of strip clubs. Seems awfully expensive for something you can get for free.

You forget that many NGs cannot get it, period. If it weren't for strip clubs I would never had any exposure to sex. I had never seen a naked woman until I went to a strip club. I lost my virginity to a stripper at a very late age.

Unfortunately as a nice guy, I never got a date, and never felt a woman would let me approach her sexually. The exceptions were strippers, and even then I treated them like sensitive women and even made them take the lead. Boy was I bad off.

[Gargantuan]

I wouldn't have the balls to ask a stripper to have sex with me. Pretty bold move if ya ask me

[Eiji]

Originally Posted by kofcydonia

I've just never understood the point of strip clubs. Seems awfully expensive for something you can get for free.

if that was true.. such places couldnt exist

[Eiji]

Originally Posted by frankPascanini

You forget that many NGs cannot get it, period. If it weren't for strip clubs I would never had any exposure to sex. I had never seen a naked woman until I went to a strip club. I lost my virginity to a stripper at a very late age.

Unfortunately as a nice guy, I never got a date, and never felt a woman would let me approach her sexually. The exceptions were strippers, and even then I treated them like sensitive women and even made them take the lead. Boy was I bad off.

I agree.... I would go to such a place off and on so my parents wouldnt think I was gay.... outside those, I was hardly looking at women at all..... (and I mean beyond "check position and vector to avoid collision")
thing is, I'm STILL doing that.. not looking at women.. although one good thing about giving up strip clubs... I found some more profitable ways to waste my money..

[bootstrapped]

Originally Posted by Gargantuan

I wouldn't have the balls to ask a stripper to have sx with me. Pretty bold move if ya ask me

Sorry, I don't think it's bold to wave cash in a pole dancer's face and ask for some. Takes more guts to cold walk up to a girl at the bookstore.